I know it's been a long time for the few readers I actually have. For that, you all have my apologizes. This blog was supposed to be an ongoing consistent exercise but it's been extremely hectic with my exodus from the modern Gotham City aka Killadelphia. Anyway, the topic of this blog is about how most people seem to be in denial of a simple truth. What is that truth you ask? Well I shall tell you.
That truth is that human beings are sexual by nature. From my past conversations with various kinds of people from both genders and all lifestyles and walks of life it seems that many people walk around with the foolish idea that sexuality is something to never be acknowledged or even that it is a dirty or downright vile aspect of ourselves we should be ashamed to mention. Everyone is, of course, entitled to their opinion but I fully and soundly reject this theory for the non-sense that it is. Let's break this whole thing down, shall we?
I am going to let everyone in on a little secret. Being the Exception To The Rule is more that just an epic motto it's daring to be bold enough to do things differently and more importantly think differently from everyone else and not just fall in line with the masses. With that said, I refuse to be told what to think and not think about anything or anyone. I can think for myself. I will not be a blind sleep who follows the lead of the "status quo" simply because it is believed that is what I should be doing by a particular majority of individuals. That is a general rule of thumb for me, but it is especially so when it comes to something like my sexuality and it should be for everyone else as far as I'm concerned!
It is flat out tragic that so many people, particularly in the United States as opposed to Europe and other countries, walk around lying to themselves. The fact is everyone that has a beating heart has sexual urges, needs, and fulfills them in some way, shape, or form. Denying that they do is as idiotic as denying that they need food and water to live. Furthermore, there is nothing to be ashamed of in regards to one's sexuality. God gave it to us for a reason. In my opinion it's a blessing from him and so long as you are not hurting yourself or anyone else you are doing nothing wrong by exploring it, claiming it as your own, and being proud of it.
Recently I listened to the topic of women being upset or angry for catching their men in the act of masturbation online from a YouTube channel I subscribe to. My first reaction was laughter to be quite honest. Why any woman would be upset or angry is beyond me unless her lover resorts to touching themselves as opposed to shared intimacy. Aside from that there is really nothing to be angry or even hurt by at all. When you are thirsty what do you do? You get up and get something to drink. When you are hungry what do you do? You find something to eat and eat it. When you are in need of sexual stimulation you have two options. The first being find a partner to engage in consensual sexual intercourse. The second is masturbate thus reliving the need for sexual release without the need for participation of partner. Ironically there is no Exception To The Rule!
We have have sexual desires and urges. Accept it. Embrace it. Get over it. To think anything else is to be a liar not only to yourself but to the rest of the world. Not only that but to deny your own nature impulses is to actually corrupt it. There is no better example than all of these Catholic priests who have been accused to child molestation over the past several years. The Church tells them that they should remain celibate for all of their lives which directly goes against human nature so in turn out of desperation their sexual desires and urges are perverted and taken out upon their only outlet in the form of children who are around them during their service. Simply making it acceptable for priests to accept their own sexual nature would solve this problem for the most part because sadly some priests are simply sexual predators regardless.
For living in the "Land of the Free and Home of the Brave" I find it hilarious that Americans are so caught up in their fake act of being so "self righteous" and "above" everyone else that they can't even free themselves from their own ignorance. Who exactly is passing down that we should all act one way or the other? The "status quo?" Who are they? Where are they? What gives them the right to tell an entire country of people what to think or do or live? The last time I checked wasn't that the exact thing our country was supposed to be against? Oppression is oppression. Control is control. It does not matter who is inflicting it upon who. It's wrong as far as I'm concerned.
So for anyone who reads this I challenge you to think before you judge someone based on their lifestyle or sexual preference. I am challenging myself as well. I think we all have moments where we fall victim to the persuasion of the media and other influences that tell us we should think this about someone who does this and that about someone who does that when the truth is that sometimes those people we are judging are being truer to themselves than we are being to ourselves. It takes courage and strength of character to do that and not flip flop in the face of resistance or adversity.
I am not saying you have to walk around with a t-shirt that says, "I LOVE BIG BUTTS!!" or "I LOVE ORAL SEX!!!" or anything like that. There is a huge difference between living your life by your own rules and imposing how you live your life on other people. Although, I'm not gonna lie, that probably would have been something I would have done in my days as a younger, single, man. :P
I'm just saying before you call a woman you don't know a "Ho" because you've seen her walking down the street with a couple different guys on a couple of different days of the week you should pause and think about the reasons you believe it is only acceptable to date and have sex with one partner. Think about how "society" seems to tell us that it's not acceptable for women to have various sexual partners thus making them whores or sluts while if men practices the exact same behavior it warrants them being praised and glorified for being a "Playa" or "Pimp." That's a called a Double Standard. So ask yourself, "Who made that rule and why am I blindly following it if I don't believe in it?" The same goes for two women being together being acceptable while two men being together is generally frowned upon or ridiculed more often that the latter. Ask yourself, "Why do I think one is perfectly acceptable while the other is grounds for being criticized and ridiculed?" Don't look for the answer from someone else look for it from inside of yourself. You know what you think is right and what you think is wrong and why? Or do you? If you are unsure regarding that question it's time to dig deeper and contemplate what it is that you believe and why.
You see, this goes a lot deeper than just sexuality. It's about knowing yourself and accepting who you are and what you are. We are all sexual beings. How we express ourselves and find pleasure in our sexuality is a decision that is solely our own. It is not up for public debate or to be judged by anyone other ourselves. Don't let anyone else or anything else take control away from you. If you have take the control back. Take your power back and live life on your terms. Not anyone else's.
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